Grace's profile感悟咖啡人生PhotosBlogListsMore Tools Help

Grace Wong

Occupation
Location
Interests
如YOKI所说,也许我们都错在“在乎”,败在“成长”...?在乎,是因为我们学会了珍惜,成长是因为昨日流逝,抵挡不住的越走越远,频频回头,彼此都变得模糊了。依稀的,只是面容纯真,不知伪装的昨日。
到现在,在昨日的好友面前我还是不懂得伪装,因为太过珍惜,那些纯真。我们总是那么善良,并且用我们的善良来揣测他人,得到的,却未必是自己和他人之所想。但是,我们得到了内心的释放...
醉笑陪君三万场,不诉离伤...因为这是“在乎”,我们都还在“成长”...

感悟咖啡人生

Looks Wins Over The Eyes,Personality Captures The Heart.

Windows Media Player

彩虹欢迎光临我滴“小小豌豆城堡”红心路过的盆友们请留下您的脚印^-^彩虹
Please wait...
Sorry, the comment you entered is too long. Please shorten it.
You didn't enter anything. Please try again.
Sorry, we can't add your comment right now. Please try again later.
To add a comment, you need permission from your parent. Ask for permission
Your parent has turned off comments.
Sorry, we can't delete your comment right now. Please try again later.
You've exceeded the maximum number of comments that can be left in one day. Please try again in 24 hours.
Your account has had the ability to leave comments disabled because our systems indicate that you may be spamming other users. If you believe that your account has been disabled in error please contact Windows Live support.
Complete the security check below to finish leaving your comment.
The characters you type in the security check must match the characters in the picture or audio.
October 23

Could not sleep

It is 2:30 am now but i still could not sleep. Too much in mind.
 
Maybe i should think carefully before moving on. This is the first time in my life that i do not know what to do next. I must find a way out!!
August 24

最近长了很多肉肉

肚子上,脸上,手臂上,猪蹄儿上,很多很多。。。呜呜呜呜。。。
August 12

有时候上班真挺心烦的

心里有一件其实应该说出来,要不总有一天积攒起来就要爆发~~

说实在的你哪次交给我活儿我没有认认真真的给你干?我忙里偷闲,也许是不应该,可是,你找不到东西不能怪我啊,你说我愿意帮你找么,我很矛盾,因为一遇到你手头事儿多,我再问你任何工作上的事情,你跟我说话都是那么不耐烦,难道别人都米有感觉的么,难道别人心里不会难受么?我觉得大家的友情建立的都不容易,干吗这个样子?我比你小,又是才参加工作不久的,你都不愿意耐心的手把手教,只有把我教会了才能减轻你的负担啊。你不愿意教我那我不跟着你学不就得了,何必给我脸色。

我觉得你其实挺善良的,但是脾气实在是不好,我觉得大家都是独生子女,也不要在工作上太过情绪化呀~~

心里很烦,一般都不和外人生气的,可是突如其来的批评和怪罪我也不愿意承担。我愿意协助你做工作,我也愿意为你写邮件地址写签收单写登记簿,我愿意为你回答老总苛刻的问题,回复理赔的麻烦邮件,还有一些芝麻蒜皮不讨好的邮件。。。你知道么,我经常是不知道前因后果的就帮你回复邮件,可是起码你要跟我说清楚啊。要不然给外商造成不必要的困惑,我心里会过意不去的。其实我对自己做事要求挺高的,做一件就要成一件,而且我不喜欢拖沓,我希望能高效的完成该做的然后干干私事儿。说实在的你又不是不知道我要出国的事情,干嘛还要在意呢??
August 11

Snackaliscious-easy and tasty snacks that can be rustled up in no time at all.

As our daily lives get busier and our schedules fill up, it leaves less time for us to enjoy the simple pleasures in life. Too many people don't cook, for they see it as being a monstrous task of preparing, cooking, eating and the subsequent clean up.

It doesn't have to be hard work.

I'm all for healthy, quick and easy cooking that tastes good and isn't filled with preservatives, fats and chemicals. Beijing is the perfect place to take time out of your busy schedule and learn how to make some of those favorite dishes that you miss from back home.

After a busy day of work, commuting, going to the gym, meeting friends and daily chores, the last thing I feel like doing is cooking a long and complicated meal.

Something that takes ten minutes and tastes like heaven is what I'm after.

Snacking is supposed to be bad for you, but that all depends on what you snack on. Below you'll find three recipes for simple snacks that anyone can try and enjoy. The ingredients can be easily found in Beijing and can be altered to suit your likes and dislikes.

There are no measurements, either. It's all about making things to suit your own taste, so just go for it. After trying these, go ahead and try to tell me that cooking is too much hard work.

Enjoy!

GARLIC MUSHROOMS ON TOAST

  •  Any kind of bread you like for toasting; my personal favorite is French stick
  • Selection of mushrooms that you enjoy
  • Several garlic cloves peeled and chopped
  • Butter
  • Salt and pepper

1.) Wash and slice mushrooms into thin slices. I prefer bite sized chunks, similar in size to thick cut fries.

2.) Slice bread and toast it, either under a hot grill or in a toaster.

3.) As the bread toasts, heat the butter in pan and add the chopped garlic.

4.) Throw in the sliced mushrooms and cook for about 5 minutes -- or until they soften -- and shine with buttery coating. Leave on a low heat.

Arrange the toasted bread onto a large serving plate and then pour the garlicky, buttery mushroom mix over the bread and spread out evenly. Enjoy!

CHEESY SCRAMBLED EGGS

  • 1/2 onion, chopped
  • 4 eggs
  • Grated cheese
  • Salt and pepper
  • Worcestershire sauce (optional)

1.) Wash and chop onion into small cubes.

2.) Crack eggs into a bowl; beat with a fork.

3.) Add salt, pepper and continue to beat.

4.) Throw in the chopped onions and mix through.

5.) Add grated cheese and gently mix through.

6.) Heat a small pan and add oil; pour in the eggy mixture and stir continuously until eggs thicken.

7.) Add more salt and pepper and a splash of Worcestershire sauce.

Once the eggs are cooked, serve on a plate. Personally, I enjoy serving with toast or just some crusty bread.

BRUSCHETTA

  • Handful of cherry tomatoes
  • French stick bread
  • 3-4 cloves minced garlic
  • Sprinkle of fresh or dried basil
  • 1 tbsp lemon juice
  • Olive oil
  • Salt and pepper

1.) Slice bread.

2.) Drizzle with olive oil and toast.

3.) Chop tomatoes and garlic into small pieces and place in a bowl.

4.) Season with basil, salt, pepper and lemon juice; sprinkle with olive oil.

Place toasted bread on a serving plate and top with tomato mixture. Eat immediately after preparation, for the tomato mixture can make the toast soggy.

These are all easy, tasty and all very, very addictive. Get snacking and get hooked!

July 29

心里很烦

有什么问题你说成么?!别一声不吭让人活着急!这委屈我受够了!
July 27

Alumni Reunion

Last weekend i had two alumni reunion parties-the high school one and the college one. Girls are all have great changes while boys remain the same.hehehe that's why there exist an old saying:"that the girls become prettier and prettier as they grow up" =)

One of my classmates, xiaoxue, she used to be my good friend was now studying in Cuba major in Spanish. She is financially supported by the Cuba Embassy at China for a five year college study. It is her antie who works in the Embassy help her to seize this great oppurtunity the very first place! She is so lucky to get the government support~~~~the information did a great help and so is her antie~~!

Some of my friends suggust me quit my job in order to concentrate on my writing task. Well, i'll think about that...
July 21

I should practise little bit before taking the damn test!

ooooooooooooook, i am going to write articles here and then rewrite them!! 
>.< I hate writing~~~~~~~~~~~~~!
July 20

Keep healthy~!

i had a bad fever last week and couldnt come back work untill today~! A healthy body is so important but we are quite easy to forget about it when we are not sick =(  I should have realized i wasnt in good condition since i stopped exercizing on weekends this quater...

i received the offer from Curtin today, even more easy than i thought. Maybe Australia is a good choice since the people there are easier to get along with. While the Swedish is too open and straight forward which always make me feel awkard. Anyway, let's see how things go in the next few months.

oki, keep on working.........
July 07

the memories

the memory of watching the transforners one was awful. i was utterly dragged to the thearter and almost fell a sleep ten minutes after the movie was on.. However this time, many friends of mine've made commendations on it, so maybe i can try it one more time..

hehehe...o(∩_∩)o... 
July 03

Will the swine flu become more serious?

My sis called me this morning said she has been on summer holiday since the begining of the week. I wonder why her school release these children so early untill i was told that her school is on the opposite side of the street where the swine flu elementary school children were found. The last time i heard about this flu it is still spread in the north west of beijing but not around the place where we are living. However, now it has invaded into our rear door and threat our people's health...Wont it be cured  by the vaccine?! it reminds me the terrible time when the SARS attacked in 2002 and at that time i was only 16.

Hope it can pass soon >.<

The French guy has gone back home this morning. I think he is not so evil as i was told. Anyway, i even feel that he is kind of cute. Although at his 60s, he is still full of passion and so optimistic~ Well yeah he is a smart dog trying to hear our business calls and wish to secretly check our docs which caused us double work to hide our inf form him...lol... but still he has brought us so much fun. 

My collegues are all have bf now. No matter serious one or just for a company, i envy them. I gonna leave next year and is therefore have no rights to hold a permanent relationship. Damn! What's wrong with me ? Am i a God damn big leaver?!!
July 02

im working on the PS

Hope things will go well with me...and Hope Dannie could help me out!
 
love
Grace
June 26

Dear God

OMG! Which course should i choose~~?  The UWA or the Curtin???
June 24

One more step

Having finished my IELTS test, things seem to be moving one more step. Lots of things need to be done and im under a tight schedule. Hope time can stop so that i can fully use the present~! 

Im checking with the immigration bureau website, however, the info are really complicated and a little confusing. i need time to figure it out.....aaaaaaaaaaah keep checkin..................it would be great if any pro could give me a hand....

Oki. Keep on working on it !!!

=====================================================================
Yesterday is history
Tomorrow is mystery
Today is a gift
That's why it is called the present!
......

May 19

80后的剩女剩男们。。。

    剩男篇
1:大学时与同龄女友深爱多年,一毕业女友被更有实力的哥们抢走了,懵懂的小子终于明白物质基础决定上层建筑的原由。
2工作的时候喜欢上一个可爱的女孩,可人家偏偏觉得无钱无房的自己寒酸。
3房价依旧居高不下,工资却老是不长20好几想找个女友难啊,同龄女子好的早就嫁人了,或者成了女强人,敢想不敢爱,小辈的80后个个精得很,没房子怎么栓人的心,难啊。
4:一晃30好几快奔四了该有的啥都有了,唯独没有了心与爱情,即使再找眼睛也会放到30以下的好生养不显老对得起自己身份就不错了。
5很多人都说有车有房的优质男人一定不会缺少女人喜欢,其实呢根本不是那会事,见个女人都叫亲爱的,周围无数多女性朋友,表面看花花太岁,其实就一宅男,打打电话,泡泡网上MM还行,如果玩真的,心理越来越恼火,不是我们把女人想得太坏,是社会让人分不清好女坏女的模样,总之个个都是美人却没一个属于我,爹妈催着结婚,跟谁结啊这是,多年的初恋早已下嫁他人,心里的涟漪不知为谁晃动,身边的年轻mm个个说爱我,没有钱他们会这样爱我吗?
630岁的剩女不敢惹,如狼似虎的年纪惹不起,他们早把我们读透了,25岁以下的mm可以惹,但突然间发现原来自己仅仅是帮助他们成才的老师,一等再等,学生出国了,老师留下了。
7:同居女友觉得自己不好或者分居两地也就散了
剩女篇
1大学四年要么有过男友,要么忙于学习没有男友,要么在还不懂得怎么去恋爱就已经失恋了,总之时间是一晃而过,转眼就22-23的人啦,没工作没资本怎么恋爱怎么生活?幸好那个所谓大学文凭还有点作用,虽然是能力大于学历的时代,但对于多数一张白纸的女毕业生来说,学历是经历的证明,就这样开始了找了工作租房子之旅开始了新的生活,等到这批女孩子勤勤恳恳的工作2-3年事业小有成绩了。
2:一下子就25,6了,转眼间发现居然成传说中的“剩女“了,虽然比所谓的30剩女还差那么一点点,但也得加紧谈恋爱,谈来谈去忽然发现工作依旧比爱情重要。
3再一晃30啦,剩啦,即使还有几年30的也想方设法的找人嫁掉,这嫁掉不是剩女自己的本意是国情决定这女孩子长到一定年纪,父母着急,自己呢也恼火,看着周围朋友婚姻幸福的或者不幸福的总有些酸楚在心里回荡。
4人们总把剩女当成3高,“学历,能力,心态”高,女性的三高,随着年纪的增长标准是一级一级的再降,结果依旧居高不下,降到底限依旧如此,不如直接打回原形“宁缺毋滥”了这不仅仅是社会的原因,还跟现代人婚姻动荡不稳定有着直接关联。
5:剩女现象是城市女性的通病,不是因为她们太复杂,而是因为她们的确是为了生存忽视了爱情,这个社会很现实的,哪有那么多风花雪夜?即使被人欺骗也只能算年少无知。
6:家庭原因地球人都知道
三十岁的女子最有魅力
我是怎么剩下的?相当晚熟,孩子气太重,任性,脾气不好,初恋也晚,大学没毕业老爹送了套二手房算啃老族,25岁因双方家庭原因失恋,26岁长了一年痘痘见不得人事业小有进步,27岁可以见人了不知怎么爱人了。其实这些都是托词,但的确就这样,有什么鬼故事啊。
个人认为三十岁的女子最有魅力,经济比二十多的更独立事业更有成,即使依旧是白骨精,但我很欣赏她们。我依旧觉得一个人三十岁以后考虑结婚比三十岁前结婚更懂得珍惜,虽然很多人会说只有老女人没有老男人的,我只能说只有懂得欣赏风景的人,没有风景一来就被人欣赏。
没有不老的容颜只有不老的心灵,只有过于浅薄的人才会以女子的年龄当做杠杆,这好比有点小资产的人找“小女生”一样,试问一对男女结婚大过15岁以上看似幸福,再过15年不知是不是不幸?也许 “君生我未生,我生君以老”又成了一种遗憾。大的差不多就行了,太大了就等于毁灭了。不是一代人代沟不可忽视。
 总结
“先同居,后结婚”早已成为城市男女恋爱的首选,已经没人干净得把自己当作白纸一般,即使男性口口声声闹处女现象,问题是处男又有几个?即使处女同居也有被甩的别说别人没找对人,婚姻里的因素并非一个处女那么简单,还包括性格脾气爱好等。再说这世上的好女人有时还真容易被坏男人死缠烂打的骗到手,好男人呢又抵不过美人关里的穷追不舍,给他们一点感动他们都可以赴汤蹈火,你说这样的事怪得了谁?
我相信剩女又有几个有不可告人的故事的呢?真正可以忍受单身的人是对己对他都很负责任的人,是最重要的剩男剩女们之所以剩下是因为对对爱情和婚姻还有信仰和期待,不然早就在家人期待的眼神中随便找人嫁掉说不定现在又成了孤家寡人,换得一身轻松,我常羡慕我的兄弟结婚幸福,他却羡慕我单身,说自己结婚后压力空前的大恼火,我说他身在福中不知福。
同理我依然相信这世界好男好女依旧很多,单身的长情男女更多,即使剩下也不要对男人女人有偏见,大家都是简单的人,人变复杂是因为生活与环境所迫而已,同时我也非常可以理解男性不喜欢年纪大女性的原因,特别是在他们眼里上了年纪的女子经历丰富故事多,可是我想说的事真正故事多的女子不是因为年纪大小而是因为心态的大小,美女大家都喜欢就像财富一样,但也得“取之有道,用之有度”总有些事情要在了解以后才明白。
后续:
中国为什么有很多夫妻无法共富贵,第一是男人穷怕了所以开始在富贵的时候以金钱去买青春,第二是丈夫富了妻子要么更忙碌要么只顾自己享受忽略了丈夫的感受,第三双方差距大了所以没办法沟通了,但只要彼此习惯彼此的存在,就成了婚姻稳固的纽带,为什么人重晚情,陪你哭的你记住一辈子,陪你笑的你何必记住,牵手陪你哭得人·走进夕阳红,放弃陪你笑得因为红尘本多可笑。剩男剩女们也别灰心用心去找总会找到臭味相投的人,前提是你别对什么都抱怀疑态度,别对什么都抱有目的性的心里,不然你也会更痛苦。
中国单身现象被一些媒体称为“危机”。有一点指向不明,究竟是谁的危机?单身者自己?老爸老妈?纲常伦理?国家?中华民族?
  单身的增加,有很多不是被迫的,而是自愿的,至少是自作自受的,单身生活对于这些人自己来说,不是什么“危”,而是“机”,是更多机会和机遇。因为单身,有更多的选择和更自由的生活,正因为不愿意失去这些,才坚持这种生活方式,拒绝为结婚而结婚。
  至于那些想结婚、却又找不到合适对象的“单身”们,也很难说是完全“被迫”。事实上,择偶标准从来都是相对的,关键在于你是否准备接受一个不完美的选择。世上怎么可能有“完美”的事呢?那些高素质的未婚男女,绝对具有足够的智商和理性来理解这个道理,但大家还是不愿意接受现实,不愿意将就凑合,宁缺毋滥,这种坚持本身,一方面是结婚的愿望并不真的那么强,另一方面也在于自己有这个独立的基础和本钱,有条件才能如此“任性”。在这个意义上,还是那句老话:艺高人胆大。至于那些真是因为各种客观条件所限,找不到结婚对象的人,确实存在,但这种情况任何时候都有,也不是今天的特殊现象。
  单身人数增加,总的来说,跟社会急剧变迁、城市化、现代化、人的个性张扬、生活精致化和注重自我感觉等等都有直接关系。社会的发展,造成人们对自己、对他人都提出更为苛刻的要求,也造成人们越来越难以接受一些与自己不符合的东西,特别是在私生活领域。我们不能把这种现象简单归结为“西方影响”。事实上,中国今天的婚恋和性别关系的变异和开放程度,在很多方面超过欧美、日本等发达国家,这固然是中国社会转型期总体上伦理道德弱化的一部分,但也具有某种“传统复兴”的成分。在中国的社会传统中,本来就潜伏着这种非主流的、弹性的、开放的生活方式的因素。中国历史上几乎所有“盛世”中,都会兴起这种看似“放浪”的生活方式,尤其是在经济繁荣、文化发达和城市化程度高的地区。而今天,形形色色的“新”的生活方式与传统有着深刻的传承关系,只不过今天不一定以男权为中心,女性也要获得这种“权利”,但婚姻和性别关系的开放性,是古已有之的。
  单身现象对于单身者,并不是太大的“危”,很多情形下,更意味着“机”。对于社会来说,大规模的单身,确实存在某些“危险”,其中最直接的,是人口结构的危机。中国由于执行计划生育政策,年轻人口本来已经呈现骤降趋势,如果这一代人中结婚率低,不生儿育女,下一代人口又会减少,可能形成人口年龄结构倒置,年轻人口不足。另一方面,这种大量单身的存在,可能导致色情业的泛滥,如果处理不当,也可能造成性病、艾滋病传播等问题。
  同时,时至今日,家庭仍然是社会的基础结构,一般来说,有家庭的人,更倾向于稳定的生活,而单身者可能倾向于随意变换生活内容,因此,单身增加,可能意味着基本的家庭制度面临挑战,进而造成基于家庭伦理的社会基本道德秩序的动摇,社会不稳定因素增加。但这种“危险”,也不是不可能通过一些制度设计和创新来化解。比如发展各种自发社团、兴趣团体等来满足人们认同感和归属感的需要,又比如可以随着需求增加,发展一些新兴的专门适应单身生活方式的社会服务等等,事实上,这些新的社会生活形态的雏形,已经在民间自发发展出来,只不过由于社会常规习俗和某些伦理的制约,还没有成为主流。中国深厚的文化传统和纷繁复杂的微观结构,注定会生成很多全新的观念和社会体系,来适应这种单身人口增加的趋势。
May 07

爱情只是婚姻建立的基础,而婚姻的维持和发展应该是友情,亲情,责任,义务,善良,宽容等种种中国文化中的优良品质,即使没有爱情,我们也可以让婚姻变的温馨而快乐,这样我们也就不会羡慕和感叹别人的婚姻是充满浪漫爱情的,怀疑自己是悲惨痛苦的,那么大家在面对婚姻的时候,是不是会轻松许多,坚定许多?
May 05

今天,我过生日

其实本来是没有想过生日的,今年的这些事儿全赶一块儿了。奶奶住院,老公月光。。。
嘿嘿,但是,谁让我上礼拜发工资了呢,所以还是带家人到外面随便吃一顿吧,于是,又决定选老一套---pizzahut(其实本来想去新光天地吃意大利pizza或者去老爸觊觎已久的老莫的,可是奶奶的体力,不能去那么远)
天气很棒,心情更是没得说,o(∩_∩)o...哈哈
ok,还有一个小时就下班咯,希望不要加班^-^
April 24

学会承受压力,是人成长的标识

其实我一直都相信血浓于水
奶奶昨天突然脑血栓了,不能说话了,而且止不住口水。其实早在四年前我就发现奶奶衰老的迹象,但是,这是我这些年来头一次看到奶奶这个样子。想当初我上大学离家的时候,奶奶还一个人天天去爬香山,身子骨那叫一个硬朗,可是如今尽然会如此!看着奶奶满是皱纹的脸,听着奶奶口中无法辨别的声音,我心里很难过,过去的种种不快统统烟消云散了。。。
希望您快点好起来
 
在网上查了下MBA的学费,竟然一年要35万,太贵了,貌似与这个专业无缘了
 
最近天天下雨,窝在家里吃冰激凌;上周末去鬼街吃花家怡园,之后去K歌;前天夜里去吃外蒙古烤羊背...结果肚肚上...长肉肉了>.<
April 14

Cheer up

  最近,和老公经常闹别扭,我心里已经很压抑了,你就别再给我添乱了成不?不要对我皱眉头,不要因为我心情不好就一样心情不好,不要调侃我因为我已已经很委屈了,不要看我离去因为我一定会哭啼的。真的,那天,因为去踩点儿的事情,我差点就心灰意冷和你分手,你不要这样好不好,难道就不允许我“失误”么,为什么不相信我能把事情解决呢,你一定要怪我为什么不做好前期准备,可是我的确认为这件事情很好解决,我觉得我能够不费力气就给办好。所以。真的,真的不要对我皱眉不要怀疑我的能力,好么?
  和你吵完架,哭得头昏昏的,你的道歉听起来没有任何力量,是啊,人都已经被你气死了,对不起还管什么用呢?你说以后再也不惹我伤心了,但愿吧。下车没有站稳,从上面摔了下去,觉得很丢人,恨不得找个地缝钻进去,恨不得当场的人民全是瞎子,众目睽睽之下啊~~我真的郁闷死了。你扶着我,给我买了八喜冰激凌,我心里小小的开心以为是让我吃的,结果你用它来给我敷脚,一边说,这个不许你吃,是你让我管你的。。。我当时真的很想咬你!真是的,我都这样了,还要戏弄我>.<
  有时真的想狠狠心离开你,但是仿佛心软是女人的通病。人们说面包会有的,人们说既要面包也要爱情,我觉得你会有面包而且我们有爱情,前者,我坚信,可是后者,我不知道琐碎生活打磨后的爱情是否还会有it's original flavor
April 08

I'll persist till I succeed!

btw, plz give me a hand if u can!

也许,这是天意

如题
...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
本来含泪写下的却不知为何突然不见了
所以,就让这一切,过去吧。。。
 
Photo 1 of 6
——走出象牙塔
大三、大四的回忆
大一、大二的记忆